And then we started talking about each other's character. This trio actually had alot of similarities. Moreover when Rossie extracted the essence of my personaility, I got shocked. Some of my traits that even I did not realised, she lashed everything at me like she knew me from the minute I was born. Even, at someone her age ( She's from China ) , a foreigner, she knew the importance of separating the intention from the behaviour.
Separatin the intention from the behaviour is a very important thing in everyday life. Be in encounters with friends, foes, lecturers, parents, colleagues, bosses or anyone, never ever ever mistake or deduce a person's intention from his behaviour.
For example, should a mother lashing at her son mercilessly for not looking out before crossing the road, the behavior is that her scolding and scolding her son non stop, even to the extent of caning and slapping or warning her son. But what is the intention ? The intention of the whole scenario is because she loves her son so much that she does not want to lose him at all. She loves him. But she doesnt show it.
This is the problem with many people, be it guardians, parents or politicians. While majority of the people look at your behavious, beg to differ and notice their intention.
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